Warning! Resources to Avoid for Legal Reasons!

[JayRay]

Yanfly put out a great icon maker where you can create your own bits and pieces, usually from photoshop custom shapes, animation bits, and whatever else to create hundreds of free-to-use icons without copyright problems.

A great resource for some of the icons and bits is DEVIANTART.com - Wherever possible, the authors of custom shapes and bits do everything possible to outline their terms of use right from the start.